Journal Prompt – Your Roots: “Reconnecting with Your Core”

by C. A. Kobu on January 9, 2012

Welcome to the second week of A Year With Myself!

Ladies, you’ve been amazing. In just one week more than 500 of you subscribed for updates. Do you realize what a passionate a community we’re building together?

I also saw that many of you started conversations in the comments, on Facebook and Twitter, visited each other’s blogs and connected. This alone makes me feel all the sleepless nights and days full of hard work I spent to make this dream, this project come true were worth it.

A huge thank you to all of you! Starting from this week, expect a visit from me on your blogs and websites. I want to personally visit and read what you’ve come up with so far. I so look forward to getting to know all of you better.

And I have good news for you: the Full Adventure Kit is finally available.

If you want or need more than just the weekly prompts and posts, and are yearning to equip yourself with the wisdom of over 70 Instigators as well as downloadable lessons and resources every single week, please head over to the newly updated Full Adventure Kit page. See and study for yourself the incredible content you will receive throughout the year.

If you haven’t downloaded Chapter 1 yet, here is the link again.

Now read on and enjoy this week’s magnificence!

Journal Prompt for Week 2

Reconnecting with Your Core

The theme of the 2nd week and our 2nd Chapter is: “Your Roots: Reconnecting with Your Core.”

When we talk about our roots or our core, we actually talk about self-discovery. This is one of my favorite subjects because it’s strongly connected to how we grow and flourish personally and professionally. After all, like Anais Nin once said, “We don’t see things as they are, we see them as we are.”

With this in mind, I joined forces with three amazing women when creating this chapter for you. Here I welcome “Goddess” Leonie Dawson, Sandi Amorim and Sue Mitchell!

I Knew I Was a Goddess

by Leonie Dawson

Once upon a time, I was adrift. A boat without sails, a star outside of orbit.

In my heart, I knew there was a true north. I knew there was a guiding light. I just didn’t know how to make it. Until one day my life changed.

An indigo-haired woman at my work—the one who laughed loudly in elevators and cuddled strangers and used the word “vagina” with such surity and joy as if it was the most normal thing on earth, the woman who shone like she knew the greatest secret in the world… she invited me in. She gave me her secret. It was a women’s circle.

One ordinary night in suburbia, I found what I had been looking for. And when I walked in that room, smelling sweetly of incense, women of all ages gathered cosily on a leopard print couch, smiling serenely, glowing alight, I thought,

“I am home. This is where I want to be for the rest of my life.” Somehow, sitting around a circle with candles aglow, sharing our stories softly into the night, I remembered that this was what I had been missing.

For all the ages, women have gathered together in circles—in wisdom circles, in comfort circles—to be supported and to be alight. And along the way, we’d forgotten to. We’d forgotten we were great and ancient oaks, deeply rooted to the spirit, to truth, to each other, to ourselves.

Sitting in women’s circles, finding the wise, loving Goddess that lived inside me, I learned to stitch my own sails. I discovered my own orbit, around my heart, around my soul. I made a compass with an arrow pointing at my own true north. I knew I’d never be truly lost again.

Even when the winds of Post Natal Depression roared through my life, threatening to flip my boat over. Even when every part of my life seemed to be dismantling, I clung to my compass.

I knew I was heading home. I knew I was a Goddess.

Your Prompt(s) for This Week

Goddess Leonie says:

“Have you found your soul’s compass yet?

What would you like to call into your life?

If the 80-year-old you wrote you a letter, what would she say?

And in what ways are you a goddess?”

GODDESS LEONIE DAWSON is a writer, blogger, retreat leader, globe-trotter, visual artist, mama, and vessel of wild creativity and cosmic prosperity for the 20,000 Goddesses who orbit around her virtual altar each month. Leonie’s strategic musings and practical wisdom have been featured on Problogger, Tiny Buddha, spirituality magazines like Goddess, Spellcraft, Life Images and Spheres, and in three of SARK’s best-selling books on creative fulfillment and freedom.
FIND HER AT: GODDESS GUIDE BOOK and @GoddessLeonie

Actionable Idea for This Week:

(one of the many exercises included in the Explorer’s Worksheet in Chapter 2)

WRITE: Take an old childhood photo of yourself and study it for a few minutes. What do you see in your childhood face? What do you feel?

What Does Chapter 2 Include?

 

What Is Included in Chapter 2 of the Full Adventure Kit (28 pages):

  • The Mission Brief outlines this week’s Chapter and explains how the approaches described in the two Vision Interviews are different, and why having these two perspectives is important.
  • Mini Lesson and Weekly Prompts from Goddess Leonie Dawson (free above for the entire community)
  • Vision Interview with Solution-Focused Coach and NLP Practitioner Sandi Amorim. Sandi talks about “being fully yourself” and explains why and how values and questions are powerful tools for self-discovery and personal growth. She also describes a very useful and amazingly easy method for self-discovery and grounding. She also shares some techniques she uses with her clients.
  • Vision Interview with Kaizen-Muse Creativity and Creative Project Coach Sue Mitchell. Sue explains why taking baby steps are important and why self-discovery is a lifelong process. Then she shares tools such as the “Seed Questions” that really work. Sue also shares methods she prefers using in her coaching practice.
  • 150 Power Questions Tool, which I have recently finished writing. This alone is a matchless tool for reconnecting with yourself especially during times when you feel blocked or you lose the deeper connection with your inner self.
  • 2 Venture Maps that describe two useful exercises for the week.
  • The Explorer’s Worksheet that includes ten additional exercises for doing, writing and thinking.
  • A hand-picked Reading List and Resources.

Here are the questions I asked Sandi and Sue. Their answers filled 11 pages! I personally gained a lot and found some striking ideas I will be applying this week.

  1. We often talk about our rediscovering our inner roots or reconnecting to our core. What do inner roots mean? What is your definition?
  2. But why do we have to rediscover it? Are we not connected anyway? Why do we have to reconnect?
  3. What happens when a woman reconnects with her deeper self? Why is it important and how does it change her life?
  4. What is your approach to self-discovery? How did you explore your “inner you”? Was it easy?
  5. What tools and methods did you or do you personally use?
  6. With your coaching clients, what is the most common problem you come across with regard to reconnecting with the inner self?
  7. How do you help them with that? Can you share with us your approach?
  8. We know that introspective questions, which I call power questions, are often used for self-discovery. Why are they so powerful?
  9. Do you use them in your coaching exercise? Can you describe your approach.
  10. Can you suggest two practical ideas or exercises for rediscovering our roots and reconnecting with the inner self. I mean what should a woman do in daily life to get to know her inner self better and feel grounded?
  11. Can you recommend one book, one author and one blog?

Head over to the detailed Full Adventure Kit page and see how you like it!

What Is Awaiting You Next Week?

The exciting theme of the next chapter is: “Self-Portraiture: Rewriting Your Beautiful Story.” We will have our journal prompt, a mini lesson and one weekly actionable idea published on the blog on Monday for the whole community.

Next week’s prompt will be announced by a “storyteller who lives in a forest.” Can you guess who she is?

NEXT WEEK FOR FULL ADVENTURE MEMBERS:

  • The Mission Brief for Chapter 3.
  • The “storyteller from the forest” and I are about to engage in an interesting conversation. You’ll get the transcript of this Vision Interview that resembles a story. I’ll also introduce you to another “storyteller who collect’s true stories”. She is sweetly obsessed with understanding yourself through telling and sharing your story. She has an interesting lesson in store for us.
  • 2 Venture Maps that describe in detail 2 actionable ideas you can do in one week (and also anytime during the year) to understand your core story and learn to rewrite it.
  • 1 Explorer’s Worksheet that includes 10 handcrafted exercises related to empowering yourself through deciphering and recreating your beautiful story.
  • Reading List and Resources Guide.

Image credit: Brilliant Etsy artist Marishka Marie Schweitzer

{ 51 comments… read them below or add one }

Tea Silvestre January 9, 2012 at 3:54 pm

This was a fun one…tried to imagine myself as 80 and fabulous. Here’s what I said: http://wholehogmarvels.wordpress.com/2012/01/09/a-letter-from-my-80-year-old-self/

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C. A. Kobu January 9, 2012 at 5:06 pm

Tea! I love the letter. I could see you had fun writing it! :)

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Sandi Amorim January 9, 2012 at 5:39 pm

Love the idea of the soul’s compass. I feel a blog post coming on! Or many, because this project is just so darn inspiring ;-)

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C. A. Kobu January 10, 2012 at 4:12 pm

I look forward to reading it Sandi! :)
And thank you!

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jennifer w. mccullough January 9, 2012 at 7:54 pm
brenda g. moore January 9, 2012 at 10:00 pm

Jennifer – this is beautiful!

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C. A. Kobu January 10, 2012 at 4:14 pm

I agree Brenda!

Absolutely beautiful. Especially the last sentence touche me deeply.

“Remember to honor your life and your beautiful, curving, zigzagged path back to the core of who you are.”

What a wonderful letter, Jennifer!

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Sandi Amorim January 10, 2012 at 9:56 am

Here is the first of I’m sure many posts from the prompts this week.

http://www.devacoaching.com/2012/01/10/good-news-bad-news/

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C. A. Kobu January 10, 2012 at 4:14 pm

This was was an inspiration, Sandi.
Love it!

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Streetlights94 January 10, 2012 at 7:58 pm

I was a little more on the ball this week. I have a hard time believing I’m 35, let alone 80! “Red Years Old” http://bit.ly/xSmPZ0

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Jessica January 11, 2012 at 8:49 am

This was absolutely fabulous. I love it!

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C. A. Kobu January 19, 2012 at 11:16 am

I love this: ” I wear age as I do my lipstick: bright, bold and red. I am red years old.”

So creative and stunning! And powerful.

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Jessica January 10, 2012 at 8:22 pm

Oh, this was a tough one for me! I’m afraid it might come out as a bit defensive, which is not what I was going for. Here it is, for what it’s worth: http://nowwhat80.blogspot.com/2012/01/i-have-no-idea.html

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C. A. Kobu January 12, 2012 at 2:55 pm

I don’t think there’s anything wrong with you, dear Jessica. Maybe you are right. Maybe at this point in your life, your complexity is your compass. I believe it is the case for so many. I’ve had similar periods and similar thoughts in my own life.

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Jackie Walker January 11, 2012 at 7:40 am

Loved the oak tree metaphor Sandi, brilliant. x

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C. A. Kobu January 11, 2012 at 11:38 am

Same here! It’s a powerful one.

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wing January 11, 2012 at 10:20 am

This journal prompts more soul searching than I thought it will be. http://www.wingvantagepoint.com/2012/01/inspirational/aywm-finding-my-roots/

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C. A. Kobu January 12, 2012 at 2:57 pm

I like the idea of being able to “hear you need to hear so as to be who you need to be.” Very powerful words.

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Beth (@ourladybeth) January 11, 2012 at 8:35 pm

Oh! I have a lot of reading to do! Here is my letter to myself: http://reverbnohollowness.wordpress.com/2012/01/10/ten-aywm-2-1/

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C. A. Kobu January 12, 2012 at 3:07 pm

Goddess Beth!

I love this paragraph:

“There are those in life that are destined to rise to greatness at a very young age. Then there are those in whom living stokes the burning embers of deep desires for years and years before that fire, at just the right moment, explodes into a blinding, unstoppable force. You, me dear goddess, are the latter. I know you can feel the embers. I also know you feel they will slowly burn you alive.”

Wow! The more I read the posts you and all other magnificent Women-of-the-Journey write using the prompts, the more fulfilled I feel inside for having launched this program. It’s damn worth all the hard work and sleep less nights!

Keep writing and doing please.
You rock!

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Melissa Sharman January 11, 2012 at 10:00 pm

This was a profound and fun experience! Loving this journey already :)
http://dustyhighways.wordpress.com/2012/01/12/perspective-a-letter-from-an-older-wiser-me/

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C. A. Kobu January 12, 2012 at 3:11 pm

I loved reading your letter Melissa!
Especially this part:
“I am here to tell you that the journey is beautiful, and you will not be disappointed. You have within you all that you will ever need. There is nothing missing that you will require, and nothing broken that can’t, and won’t, be fixed if need be.”

And yes, the program is meant to be highly introspective and very self-centered. It’s designed to be a very “me-me” and also “us-us” year. :)

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Joy January 13, 2012 at 10:00 am
C. A. Kobu January 19, 2012 at 11:16 am

I thank you for writing along!
I really like what you’ve been creating.

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brenda g. moore January 14, 2012 at 5:24 pm

Oh my, so much reading – so much writing – some has become a giant mashup of all the prompts. But C.A. – what a wonderufl gift to me you are! And your cohorts, too – great thanks to you all for pulling me into this space.

Here’s my week 2 post:
http://threealphadogs.blogspot.com/2012/01/brenda-trusting-singing-heart.html

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Lisa Faulkner January 15, 2012 at 5:15 pm

I love your fierce commitment to yourself and courage to break the rules. Empowering!

For some reason I couldn’t get my comment to post on your blog.

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jennifer w. mccullough January 15, 2012 at 8:55 pm

This is beautiful… feeling connected to you by the feelings you express when you are tapped into your soul & spirit. Thank you for writing & sharing this.

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C. A. Kobu January 19, 2012 at 11:17 am

Thank you. Brenda! And you, yourself is also a gift to this community. I really enjoy your participation and your presence in the experience.

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Caroline Kulesza January 14, 2012 at 11:25 pm

I’m in for the full adventure. You’ve given me a lot to think about! Thank you! http://mountainphile.wordpress.com/2012/01/14/aywm-week-2-have-you-found-your-souls-compass/

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brenda g. moore January 15, 2012 at 10:48 pm

This is so brave – to say “I am a Goddess!” I’m not there, (yet?), I believe I fear it and I wouldn’t touch that prompt with a ten foot pole. But, you did! Hurrah! – that’s how it feels to read your post, like a big hurrah!

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Caroline Kulesza January 16, 2012 at 3:01 pm

It is a hard thing to acknowledge–I totally am with you on the fear. Now I’ll see where it takes me!

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C. A. Kobu January 19, 2012 at 11:19 am

So glad! It’s always a good idea to use the morning hours for journaling.

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Lisa Faulkner January 15, 2012 at 2:59 am

Here’s my reply to “And in what ways are you a goddess.?”
http://poledancingprofessor.com/2012/01/grocery-store-goddess/

Still looking forward to writing a letter to me from my 80 year old self. I’m going to use futureme.org to send it to my 80 year old self to see if I agree then with what I imagine I’d say now.

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C. A. Kobu January 19, 2012 at 11:20 am

Another nice one, Lisa! I love your writing and your spirit.

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Beth (@ourladybeth) January 15, 2012 at 11:51 am

Actionable Idea! Studying an old photograph of myself… http://reverbnohollowness.wordpress.com/2012/01/15/fifteen-aywm-2-3-2/

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C. A. Kobu January 19, 2012 at 11:21 am

Lovely pictures. Although you don’t remember, the photos are radiating raw happiness.

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Sarah January 16, 2012 at 1:53 pm

I’m a little late, but here’s my message to my younger self. What a great exercise! http://grownupmom.wordpress.com/2012/01/16/letter-to-my-20-year-old-self/

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C. A. Kobu January 19, 2012 at 11:22 am

And what a great letter, Sarah! As I was reading, I wished it wouldn’t end.

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Sandi Amorim January 17, 2012 at 11:47 am

The thing I’m loving about the prompts is how they keep working on me after I’ve read them. For example, I wrote this post almost 2 weeks after reading the Week 2 prompt!

http://www.rootsofshe.com/2012/01/tend-to-your-roots.html

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C. A. Kobu January 19, 2012 at 11:24 am

There’s a lot of material to read and work on every week. Maybe I’m overdoing the amount I include into each chapter. But we can always go back and enjoy/use the parts we have to skip because there isn’t enough time. I’m thinking of the Full Adventure Kit like a treasure chest we fill a bit more every week. Some items we use immediately, and some we save for later.

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Currie Silver January 17, 2012 at 2:13 pm

I’m loving this process and since I didn’t get started until last week, I am still enJOYing all of the 2nd week.

I’ve written one post that was inspired by Sandi’s and Sue’s thoughty sharing on self-discovery and our “inner” selves.
http://ayearwithmyselfandothercharacters.blogspot.com/2012/01/walking-with-my-intimate-accepting.html

I’m so jazzed to see all this good stuff in the comments and to know I can enJOY it at my leisure.

This is an outstanding creation C.A.!! And thank you so from the tippies of my toes to all who have so generously shared themselves and their thoughtsandfeelings.

Beautimous!!

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C. A. Kobu January 19, 2012 at 11:25 am

And I’m really enjoying your entire presence, joy and energy, Currie. You’re amazing.

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Harley January 23, 2012 at 5:13 pm

I’m a bit behind, but just finished this week’s promt :-)

http://www.harleyroxanne.com/true-north/

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Jenny Ryan (aka, "Cranky Fibro Girl") January 26, 2012 at 12:04 pm

Yay! Finally posted for weeks 1 and 2!
http://www.jennyryan.com/?p=8536

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cara moulds January 30, 2012 at 10:03 pm

Still catching up!
Reclaiming the Goddess Within
http://www.caramoulds.com/2012/01/reclaiming-the-goddess-within/

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lisaluv February 2, 2012 at 11:01 am
Lainey February 5, 2012 at 1:10 pm

This was quite difficult for me, and it took me longer than I expected to be willing to open up about it.

http://wednesdaybreadandalphabets.blogspot.com/2012/02/year-with-myself-week-2.html

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Sarah O February 5, 2012 at 2:34 pm

Lainey, I’m so glad you were able to write this and share it with us. It is a first step to discovering your own true desires and passions. So many of us feel like we don’t deserve to be fulfilled and happy – because what about everyone else?! I am slowly discovering that the only way I can share my gifts with the world – and maybe help others and the planet – is to get in touch with those deep needs. You are in the right place!
I really relate to your About sentences. “Too left-brained for the right-brained world and too right-brained for the left-brained world” You could have been writing about me!

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lisaluv February 5, 2012 at 3:50 pm

me too! great baby steps are so good….

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SarahB April 21, 2012 at 8:38 pm

Not having a blog and having joined the group late, here is my child photo study:
I am 2 or 3 years old, sitting in my little rocker in my footy pajamas, hugging a baby doll and crying.  My eyes are big and wet, my cheeks are pink and my lower lip is sticking [way] out.  I had done something wrong.  Had I realized it was wrong? I am upset and have a kind of ‘you were mean to me’ look.
They thought my pain was funny and took that picture of me.
It was a sign of things to come though.  My constant inability to please a demanding mother and receiving what some would call abuse because of it; my rebellious teen years that didn’t hurt anyone but myself; and the years and years after high school that it took before I could go home again.

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Sabrina S. May 10, 2012 at 4:10 pm

Hi everyone,
I joined late, but here is my contribution to Module #2: http://writingforabetterlife.blogspot.fr/2012/05/aywm2-your-roots.html
Cheers from France.

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